Category: Singles Spit Swap
Hi, single and looking, my looks, 5.5 blond hair, shoulder length 100 pound
grey blue eyes.
Stands looking just a little bit helpless, wondering where too start.
I guess it is here i tell what you're going into , right?
am studying medicine, to be more exact nursing.
It means, i know it sounds totally weird to say it in this cold world that we all
live intoday that i am pretty warm hearted, will do absolutely anything to
keep the right one out of harms way.
I love nursing, and i have no idea where it will take me, right now i am going
back and forth between 2 countries to get it all ended :smiles.
When not doing that i like a list of things so long that it could start at "Lange
linje" and end in VA." but lets take some of it.
I like working with dogs, sailing, singing, playing, working with kids, cooking,
when i have the time .
basically i like using my body, mind and soul.
So well that should cover the most ground, right? if not I'm sure more than
sure in fact that someone is going to ask.
That was the cheerful site, the not so cheery is when i come home tired, both
physically bodily and mentally. Nurses cries our eyes out sometimes, I do too
and well if you can't take that , well then i am not for you, downright.
Nurses gives out lots, so well we need a whole back in.
Who are you? gentle and caring and down to earth. I am pretty open minded
my self and i expect you are as well.
I have a better relation with girls than males, i am not saying a bf will not
work just that he gotta be patient when it comes too the sex act.
I guess in general what i am looking for is a person who will burn for me and i
will burn for her , him in return.
Send me a pm if you wanna be sure i see it and lets take it from there.
have a great day you all.
Well, given the long list of relationship advertisements here, I have to say Yours is rather refreshing. At least people can get a sense of you and what you're looking for. I'm happily married, but I hope you find what you seek, and hopefully it can be local.:)
well… i will find it when i find it :) and thank you
bassed on what I see you sure have an interesting sense of humor. I figured you and I would have a few laughs from day one, if nothing else. it takes a special person to be a nurse. smile.
Hi, well it would also take a special person too live with a nurse i guess.
I mean sometimes we may come home cheery, at other times we may come
home not so cheery, At other times what we have seen at work makes us do
special things too feel alive.
I know that at least I do.
And yes John, you have made me laugh quite often, and that in it self is a
good thing.
smiles
Good post! Smile.
well, you nurses see a hell of a lot. people get better. people die. that's gotta whare on anyone who has any sort of careing about people at all. especially those that are in the field. what I don't get is how you cant get attached somehow. I mean, my god. you see these people every day. you get to se their families every day. that stuff effects you, which is understandable. if it didn't, then nursing wouldn't be for you IMO
Hi, you do get connected, any nurse who tell you she don't, should not be a
nurse at all!
But in the field there is a huge debate about this, our books says that we shall
try too get as professional as possible, at the same time too ease the patient
it is okay too touch him when chance present it self. By touch i should maybe
clarify that could be a warm hand on his/hers, shoulder. Now please tell me…
how can the expect us to touch something living and then, it dies, and the
nurse would not be effected?
I don't believe it for a second. So as it is right now we are semi-left too our
own devices, we after work sit out in our cars and cry our eyes out.
If we are lucky we have someone at home who will listen too our talking
about the day. It is one of many reasons nurses are so damn stressed.
The most nurses on their part, wanna appear all cheerful and things, but
guess what? Even the most acting cheerful nurse worth her salt will break
down before or later, the more later the deeper she will fall. And usually
before she have become an fallen angel doing loop-de-loops spiraling towards
earth with over 240 miles an hour she have been bad too the patient in the
sense she have not been able too give him, her her fullest and warmest
attention. That is not anyway for anyone too live , if she on the other hand is
willing too take a good deep cry when body demands it,"may happen with or
with out her partner, depending on her " she will survive, all as cheerful as
when she started.
At last but not least, ill end this with a little history from my own life.
Eventually i have been married too a man before, we lived in a little Town in
jutland called skater, so in order for me to go to the medical school in Aarhus,
i had to drive like 50 kilometer, i believe it is roughly 25 miles in our old
diesel Landcruiser. "toyota hj61" for them who wanna google engine and
such.
Eventually we have a kid that literally dies in my arms, i start too cry softly ,
and this old head nurse comes in, sees me and says" Sandi, stop crying,
there will be more where she comes from" i kid ya not i could have killed
her…"
3 weeks after she was gone, she was a total burnout, we found her 2 months
later on the camping place, a total drunk.
I ask her what went wrong? she was like … if you have not learned anything
else from me learn this, find a partner who will let you talk, cry, what ever it
shall take for you too keep sane.
The astronauts have a saying." we are standing on the shoulder of others"
and well that is true, we nurses do too. The partners ability too just listen can
be a huge help.
hmmm this mail came out a little different than i had imagined, well no
problem, after all i want the future partner to know what he she goes into
wow sandi. I hear all this. you took my shortened version and mae made it much longee and explained it further. of corse you did. the person died. I mean. wow. and you know any tie you wanna talk, come to find me.
oh i will :)
good. glad to hear it. I think we'll get along just fine. smile
Many seem to develop a morbid sense of humor as a means of coaping. Oh, and good luck in your search.
not sure that is h best way to cope
what works for one person, may not work for another, all across the board.
I disagree with the opinion that just cause someone is a nurse, that means that person is a good nurse/person.
it would be nice if that were true, but not everyone that's a nurse should've been in the medical field, let alone in that particular profession.
there are bad apples in every bunch, though, no matter what profession we're talking about.
however, nurses, like many people in numerous other high-stress professions, are human first.
what I mean is, I'd venture to say that anyone who is in a stressful job, no matter their job title or gender, needs someone to let off steam to.
so, best of luck to you, Sandi, in finding what you're looking for.
I'd agree. Everyone needs a partner that is there for them regardless of the profession.
yes. what wayne said! coming home and bein all alone when so upset, that's a horrible thing.
actually, I said it. Wayne just agreed. lol.
kay that works Chelsea
hi.
First too Chris, yes that is true some nurses tends to do that, as a mean of
coping, however it is because they are most likely shy about themselves, silly
girls nothing to be shy, scared about , everyone is humans after all. That is
how i see it at least.
Chelsea, nails it right on though, either intentionally, or unintentionally, you
do have bad nurses and well lets be honest the most bad nurses, are bad
nurses cause they don't wanna look too closely into them selves, hell we have
at least in europe books and literature enough too help her coape and find out
if nursing is not for her.
And well it goes without saying that if you do something that puts your mind
in constant defense, it will show if not anywhere else then in your body
language.
It is like BDSM, just differently of course, if you get a person saying … i am so
submissive, i so like pain, the first you shows him, her rope whips, and the
person is scared of it , it shows and you of course if you are worth your salt
back off, or if you are still interested in the person finds something that works
for the both of you.
And yes , in that world we have bad persons too, very bad persons indeed!
And that actually brings me too a way more serious thing i wanna address in
public. And i mean every word i say and write, so there is no need for anyone
too start wondering about if she really means it, because She do.
Ive lately gotten some PMS from folks asking if i would use them over Skype.
The long and short of that is NO, period.
Play some sort of Erotic Dominans game rl with the right one, sure i might
after i got to know the person i was with, but never over the net. Stuff can go
wrong so, fast.
And on that note.
smiles, tosses her blond mane softly , and runs off for a few hours.
Hello, Sandi. Nice post by the way; i gave up on these advertisements awhile ago. My name is Nathan, am from Virginia, 22, studying history. I'd like to get to know you, and go from their. I don't know if you would ever consider something not local, as long-distance relationships leave a lot to be desired.
Nathan.
long distance relationships can work, if both people are willing to put in the effort to make them do so.
however, in order for a long distance relationship to be a long-lasting relationship, there has to be plans for someone to move to the other person's area.
Hi Nathan. Would i be willing to starting a long distance relationship?
The short answer is absolutely, as long as i liked the person.
Chelsea, got a good point though, but to answer your question yes i would.
Sandi
Nice post Sandi.
If possible, i would really like to chat
with you sometime.
Chris